Jay Stringer’s book “Unwanted” tells us that “sexual brokenness reveals our way to healing”. His work teaches that destructive sexual behavior around pornography, affairs, and paying for sex are pointing us toward the original wounding that began a life of addiction or compulsion with sex. There is a story of how you came to be where you are, and “brokenness” reflects the old trauma that you still carry. Perhaps your parental figure was rigid with rules, and their work to control you filled you with anger. Perhaps they were disengaged and appeared to not care, leaving you to feel abandoned and like you did not matter. Your “unwanted” sexual behavior will likely display as either a re-enactment or a reversal of your trauma, and this is why the behavior itself is the essential clue for healing it.
This program is a weekly guided group through Jay Stringer’s JOURNEY course, focusing specifically on the material from “Unwanted”. Groups meet for 2 hours, once per week, to understand where you came from and choose where you go from here.
In this program, we will help you learn how to:
When you choose this program with Addiction Reality, you will receive:
Please ensure that you have a copy of “Unwanted” by Jay Stringer. Weekly chapter readings are assigned from this book.
Guided Group Program: $1,290.00 per person
This program will assist you in learning from your past and from your current unwanted sexual behavior to finally understand what is needed to heal yourself and move on in life. The work in this program will help you learn what caused you to be this way and what must happen next. You will finish this course knowing what was missing in your early life, what is important to you now, and how to be an active participant in your relationships.
You will finally understand the connections between where you’ve been, what you do now, and where you must go next.
I went to rehab for sex addiction. I did 12-Steps, I did Facing the Shadow, I did meetings and groups and everything you can think of. “Unwanted” is absolutely the best information out there. It had everything I needed to understand what happened to me when I was young, and what I needed to do to heal. Since doing this work, I feel like I finally understand myself, and I feel like I am finally sober. – Mark L.